Gentleness is a positive virtue in personal relationships since kindness shows the attitude of respect towards the other by wanting to take care of the little details to make life pleasant. Gentleness is a deference to the other person, through attitudes and personal details with which a person is courteous.
For example, helping an elderly neighbor to carry the shopping cart bags is a kind gesture, a person can also organize a meeting at home and invite their friends to enjoy a relaxed evening at home. Good manners and good manners are a sign of emotional intelligence in social relationships.
Social friendliness
In that case, to this gesture of kindness, the guests also usually correspond with some detail, such as bringing a box of chocolates or a bottle of wine. Any kind of kindness shows a consideration for that person, it is a positive detail that whoever receives said action values it as an emotional gift since it feels good.
Gentleness is a quality that is also highly valued in the professional field in those customer service jobs in which the professional aspires to offer personalized customer service. For example, when working as a clerk in a store, the customer values that the professional treats him with courtesy.
Is gentleness innate or is it trained? Anyone can acquire greater kindness through practical experience, by educating their own ego, understanding that at certain times it is advisable to give priority to the needs of the other.
For example, in the professional context, kindness to colleagues or clients implies understanding that beyond the personal mood, others are not responsible if you have a bad day, therefore, that mood should not be a excuse to neglect good manners.
Thank you and please
The education received in childhood by parents and teachers is very important to instill courtesy as a value. For example, parents teach their children to ask for things please and to give thanks. These two words, thank you and please, are two of the quintessential symbols of kindness.
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