The word possession shows the sense of ownership that a person has over a specific property. The sense of ownership can never be used by some people with respect to others precisely, because people are not a object but beings with freedom and dignity.
However, there are people possessive as the example of jealousy that suffers a great deal unsafety and distrust in themselves.
Need to always be in control, for example in your partner
A person possessive He is dominant, that is, he wants to have control over his partner. You want to know what he does and who he relates to. A frequent attitude of a possessive person is to call for telephone your partner to know where he is.
Be possessive It is an insane and overwhelming form of affection that leaves the other without their own space. In personal relationships, it is essential to establish clear limits so as not to fall into dependent or toxic relationships. That is, in loves that become pathological and that far from making a person grow they become a obstacle growth.
The problem of possessive jealousy
Jealousy possessive can be overcome but for this, the person has to become aware of their problem and ask for help from the specialist to be able to establish changes in his attitude.
A person possessive in love he suffers a lot because he lives with the constant anguish of losing the person he loves. However, this attitude also produces a lot of suffering in the other, who, when feeling controlled, ends up moving away little by little. The essence of love is Liberty and not possession.
How to avoid being possessive in love?
1. First, cultivate the love towards yourself, that is, it reinforces your self-esteem because when you feel good with you yourself also feel good with others.
2. Grow your life in general, in its different facets: cultivate your family life, your relationship with your friends and also promote your own space.
3. Practice the communication assertive to bet on sincere and open dialogue to get to know your partner better and so that he can get to know you.
4. Think positive and put aside the dramatics negative thinking. Optimism feeds love from respect and trust. Practice active listening.
5. Express your feelings in an open and sincere way.
Remember that healthy love has nothing to do with possession. Therefore, anyone should cut any destructive bond in an inconvenient relationship.
